Life lessons

Bashert: Love, Destiny, and the Light That Guides Us When we talk about love, romance, and marriage in Judaism, one word always seems to find its way into the conversation— bashert. It’s a Yiddish word often translated as fated, inevitable, or preordained, and it’s most commonly used to describe a soulmate. But at its core, bashert simply means destiny. The idea of bashert is about much more than just being in the right place at the right time. It’s the belief that certain things—especially love—are meant to be. That each of us has a path, and when we follow it,...

For the past 30 years, I’ve had the joy of designing and crafting handmade glass Hanukiahs (Hanukkah Menorahs). Knowing that my menorahs are part of so many families' cherished holiday traditions makes the work incredibly rewarding. But, I’ll admit, it had been a while since I cleaned the wax off my own menorah. This year, I finally decided to tackle the task—and I'm here to share some simple and effective tips to help you do the same.  Whether you're a seasoned menorah cleaner or a reluctant one like me, these steps will make the process easier. What You’ll Need:Warm waterA...

Recently, I had the incredible opportunity to travel through Southern Spain, and along the way, I uncovered a rich history that left me both humbled and fascinated. It was a history that, unfortunately, hasn’t always been kind to the Jewish people. Growing up in a neighborhood in New York, I was surrounded by families who were either Jewish or Italian. Most of the Jewish families I knew were Ashkenazi, with roots in Eastern Europe, and I have to admit—I wasn’t particularly aware of the Sephardic Jews or the deep, complex history they share with Spain. The Sephardic Jews’ story is...

As July unfolds in New York, the city's energy quickens with the sweltering sun, and it's not just the temperature rising; it's the Yiddish words that come alive with the season. From shvitzing in the summer heat to leisurely shpatziring through the streets, Yiddish enriches our experience of this vibrant time of year. Shvitz - The word itself conjures up the sensation of sweating profusely in the heat. Originally meaning a steam bath, the shvitz has deep roots in Jewish culture, tracing back to ancient times when bathhouses were integral to communal life. It found a new home in New York’s...

International Women's Day isn't just another date on the calendar; it's a powerful reminder of the strength, resilience, and unwavering spirit of women everywhere. It's a day to honor the trailblazers who shattered glass ceilings, the activists who fought tirelessly for gender equality, and the everyday heroes who inspire us with their courage and determination. One of the most beautiful aspects of International Women's Day is its universality. It's a day that transcends borders, cultures, and languages, bringing together people from all walks of life to champion the rights and freedoms of women. Whether you're in New York or Nairobi,...